By: Dr. Salihu Lukman
(1) Study yourself deeply to understand clearly all your personality traits, both positive and negative.
(2) Have a thorough understanding of how each of your personality traits shapes, molds, and impacts you socially (intimate and family relations, work relations, social media usage, etc.), economically, religiously, morally, and internally.
(3) Remember that personality traits whether considered positive or negative depending on one’s perspective are very inflexible and rigid, because they define who we are as an individual, and hence, very difficult to change even with the fullest insight.
(4) Notwithstanding your findings in (1) – (2) above and irrespective of the judgment that other people may pass about your personality traits, always strive to be a better person as much as you can, and consequently learn to accept yourself for whoever you may be especially when things are practically beyond your control to change either in yourself or in others around you. Be kind to yourself, because you are who you are because of those personality traits.
(5) If moving on proves futile, then, live and let live.
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